5 Books to Help Kids Cope with Loss

When children experience loss, books can provide comfort and understanding in a way that feels approachable and safe. Stories give kids language to express their feelings, reassurance that they’re not alone, and tools to navigate tough emotions.

Here are five children’s books I’ve discovered that explore grief and loss in thoughtful and meaningful ways.

1. The Invisible String by Patrice Karst

This timeless classic reassures children that love transcends physical distance. It introduces the idea of an “invisible string” connecting us to everyone we love, even if they’re no longer with us. Its universal message makes it a wonderful resource for children navigating any kind of separation or loss.

2. Ida, Always by Caron Levis and Charles Santoso

Based on the true story of two zoo polar bears, this beautifully illustrated book sensitively explores grief and remembrance. It’s an excellent choice for helping children understand that while loss is hard, love and memories endure.

3. The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr

Todd Parr’s signature colorful and approachable style makes this book perfect for younger children. It gently addresses the emotions kids might feel after losing someone they love and emphasizes that it’s okay to feel sad, angry, or confused.

4. Cry, Heart, But Never Break by Glenn Ringtved and Charlotte Pardi

This poignant and poetic story offers a unique perspective on loss, personifying Death as kind and compassionate. It’s a powerful book for older children and families to read together, encouraging meaningful conversations about life and death.

5. A Hug from Heaven by Anna Whiston-Donaldson

Written by a mother who lost her own child, this book uses simple, heartfelt language to remind children that their loved ones are watching over them and will always be with them in spirit.

Why Books Like These Matter

Books help children make sense of the world, especially during challenging times. These stories provide not just comfort but also tools for understanding and processing grief in healthy ways.

If you’re supporting a child through loss, I encourage you to explore these titles and find the ones that resonate most with your family.

At Jurni, we're working to bring these themes of grief, healing, and hope to life through an animated short film inspired by our story. If you’d like to support this project, please visit our Kickstarter campaign or learn more on the Jurni website. Together, we can create something meaningful for families navigating their own journeys.

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