Grief is a complex and challenging experience for anyone, and when children are faced with the loss of someone they know, it can be particularly difficult to navigate. As parents, educators, and caregivers, providing the right support is crucial during these times. Fortunately, there are many great books out there to help children cope with grief. Here is a list of 10 books to help you in supporting the young ones in your care.
1. The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
This comforting story teaches children that they are always connected to their loved ones, even when they are apart. It’s a beautiful metaphor for loss, helping kids feel comforted by the idea of invisible ties.
2. The Memory Box: A Book About Grief by Joanna Rowland
This gentle story helps children understand that memories of loved ones who have passed can be cherished and held onto forever. It encourages children to create a memory box to keep their loved one close in spirit.
3. Ida, Always by Caron Levis
Based on a true story of two polar bears in a zoo, this book explores the powerful themes of love and loss through the bond of friendship. It presents loss in a realistic but compassionate way.
4. When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
A straightforward and age-appropriate guide that helps children understand the concept of death, this book addresses the emotions that come with it in a practical and gentle way.
5. Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children by Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen
This book explains that everything living, whether plants, animals, or humans, has a lifetime. The simple and respectful language helps children understand death as a part of life.
6. Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
A unique metaphorical book that likens grief to making a pot of soup, this story helps children understand that everyone grieves differently and at their own pace.
7. The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld
This tender story emphasizes the power of just being there for someone who is grieving. Through the actions of a kind rabbit, the book teaches empathy and how to handle feelings of sadness and anger.
8. Saying Goodbye to Lulu by Corinne Demas
This is a heartfelt story about the loss of a beloved pet, but it touches on the universal emotions of grief, love, and remembrance. It’s a great resource for children processing the loss of someone or something they care about.
9. My Big, Dumb, Invisible Dragon by Angie Lucas
Using the metaphor of a dragon that only the child can see, this story sensitively addresses how grief can feel like a looming presence. It offers a way for children to externalize their grief and understand it.
10. Goodbye Mousie by Robie H. Harris
This book helps children process the death of a pet and shows how grief evolves over time. It acknowledges the sadness and anger children may feel, while providing reassurance and hope.